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But that’s pretty uncommon – it worked for them because they set specific, careful boundaries, and there are a few other pastors at the church.

But even with the challenges, all three women said their place in the dating world isn’t all that unique.

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She's dated a few people from Columbia since starting work in Fulton, but when they get together, she comes to Columbia for a sense of anonymity.

“People will notice that there’s a car in the parsonage driveway – I mean, and they’ll notice it, you know – and I’ll get asked about it,” she said. “I mean, there’s bars, but that’s not gonna [work]," she said. "That’s a power thing." Some pastors have turned to a different source for meeting potential people: Online dating. "I did not put down that I was a pastor, because I just felt like that could draw all types of weird people," she said.

At first, she was open about being a pastor, but that didn't go over too well.

"So then, I started saying I’m an executive, which I am," she said.

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With us, you can rest easy knowing you are dealing with church going Christians who know their Psalms.Summer starts with a June focus on our families and relationships.Human beings were created with an amazing capacity for love and intimacy. The simple birds and bees lessons we were taught as children aren’t quite adequate for navigating adult relationships.All that’s to say that being a clergy woman has its own set of challenges – and those challenges come into play on the dating scene.On a drizzly February day in Fulton, I sit in a restaurant called Bek’s, sipping coffee and talking with Emily Carroll. She pastors Court Street United Methodist Church in Fulton.It can be difficult to chat or send messages back and forth if you are worried about your identity being stolen or a member harassing you.

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