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This is why so many people fall victim to the "if you really love him, then you’ll overlook X, Y and Z" mentality. If you really love yourself, you wouldn’t settle for things you don’t want to begin with. Start by being honest with yourself and with what you really want. I’ve literally lost count how many times I’ve seen this scenario play out. One person is obviously not fond of the other’s child, but tries to sweep the rising resentment under the rug “in the name of love.”A year or two (or 10) down the road, and the couple is headed for splits-ville, due to “irreconcilable differences” (aka kid issues). This seems pretty self-explanatory, but I’ll elaborate.
I don’t live a typical lifestyle, nor would I ever want to. But at this point, dating someone who has children of his own just doesn’t fit with my life goals. If someone single and kid-free comes into our lives who can add to that, maybe I’ll partner up.
The jet-set lifestyle works with one kid, but not so well with two or more. The bottom line is, most people aren’t honest about what they really want out of life and relationships.
I’m a single mom with a 3-year-old son, and I won’t date someone who has kids. If that’s not enough to make you think I’m a hypocritical bitch, let me venture even further.
My son lives with me 100 percent of the time, seven days a week, 24 hours a day. For the longest time, after having my son and raising him on my own, I thought I’d be destined to settle for someone with a tribe of his own children. That’s often the case, but it sounds like a far cry from a fairy tale ending to me.
Be aware of sacrifices that your date may have made and make your time together as fun and carefree as possible.
The more you set her free from her worries, the more she will be ready to be outgoing and warm toward you.And far too often, where there’s a baby mama, there’s baby mama drama. If I wanted another woman in my relationship, I would invite one. It’s hard enough to find one person I want to date, let alone having to pacify someone’s ex to keep the relationship happy. My son is the funniest, cutest, smartest, most extraordinary little human I’ve ever encountered. But this seems to be the general consensus from everyone who meets him.) I’d seriously be pushing my luck by attempting to bring another child into my life.Two little humans that perfect don’t come along twice. Since he was a baby, my son has traveled with me, gone to business seminars with me and literally done everything with me. I have overwhelming respect for anyone raising kids on their own because I know it can be a tough gig.After several failed attempts to adjust my relationship goals to this idea of a blended family, I finally got honest with myself (and the people I was dating).Let's just say, it didn’t go over well for the few people I had gone on dates with. I’ve had fun getting to know you, but at this point, I need to be honest. Best of luck.”Based on the responses I got, I damn near-rivaled Donald Trump for the title of up-and-coming super villain.This weekend my friend asked him what was going on and he told her that he really likes me and doesn't mind being just with me but that the relationship could never develop into anything serious because I have 3 kids. I understand him in a way because he is young, single and has no children of his own.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating