Dating shy guy help

He already knows you’re not going to go out with other guys.

He already knows you have decided to be exclusive to him.

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Dating shy guy help

“Dropping the mask” is something I talk about extensively in the article link below…

After that guy determines that you really like him, he has you, and he’s no longer worried that he could lose you to another guy.

At first, I thought he was just trying to end things, but then from time to time, he’ll text me something really sweet, like about how much he wants to see me, or that he’s been thinking about me, so obviously, he’s still interested or why would he do that?

Okay, I’m gonna let you in on something that very few women know.

What I am saying is that in the beginning phase of the relationship, it’s common for one or both people to have some amount of insecurity and want to go out of their way to make sure the other person really likes them before they let their guard down.

So one of the ways they might see if you like them is to do and say anything they can think of that they think you would like. You would want the other person you’re with to feel secure with you, so that they can let their guard down and be their true day-to-day self (without all the added performances to make you like them).

He would text me things like, ‘I miss you’ and ‘Can’t wait to see you’ and on our second date he said he ‘never liked a girl so much after only two dates’. All this was great, but then he started to shift and lately has been acting really shady- he cancels on me last minute, he’s been acting distant, and I’m just getting weird vibes.

We hit it off right away and during the first few weeks, he seemed super into me.

He does all sorts of things to woo her and win her over, but simultaneously, he (for whatever reason) does not want to be in an exclusive relationship.

So as soon as the woman declares that she really likes him, she assumes it means that they’re headed towards a relationship.

The excitement is on thinking about all the things they like about you.

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