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[Read: The right way to have a perfect start to a new relationship] The mind of an insecure man It took me quite a few years to actually see what I was experiencing now and then with guys I date.Acknowledging the fact that you’re dating an insecure man is never easy.

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[Read: Signs to tell if he really is the right man for you] The problems of dating insecure men Insecure men are terribly jealous. In fact, they’ll make you feel like you’re being the bad one in the relationship.

They’ll behave like they’re sacrificing so much for your happiness, and load you up with guilt.

A secure man wouldn’t be offended or threatened if his woman speaks to other guys *unless she’s had a sexual history with that guy*.

But if your man is insecure, chances are, he’ll tell you how lonely and awkward he felt when you were so busy talking and having fun with another guy. They look for ways to pierce your heart and get things done their way.

But as the months start to roll by, you’d see that the advice would start to turn into sulking commands and manipulative pleas to arm twist you into doing what he wants.

Unfortunately, you’ll never see the signs or the real face under the mask of niceness until you’re ready to end the relationship or have already broken up with him.Almost all the time, you’ll just end up assuming that your boyfriend’s only trying to help you.If you’re stuck in a relationship with an insecure man, you’ll have to spend all your life trying to please him and make him feel happy and satisfied in the relationship.And then, it was the same with my job and with the amount of time I spent in office and how much I spend on shopping. But he always seemed hurt and pained when I went out without him. No matter what I did, unless I had his approval, he was always upset by something or the other. Nothing could ever please him, and he always had a way of pointing flaws in the things I did.I tried changing myself for him so he could be proud of me. I was in this relationship for almost three years before we had to go our own ways for good.Almost every woman I know has experienced her share of insecure men.

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