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"I was in a new city, needed a doctor, so filled out my health history, my partners, etc.
I've only ever been with my boyfriend and one woman, so it was a big deal when I wrote down that I was bisexual on that form.
Since I was attracted to boys, I just assumed I was straight and ignored the attraction I felt for girls.
I never gave myself the chance to think about it because I was safe where I was.
For him, it was just another thing to know about his mom, to file with things like my being a writer, growing up in Connecticut, etc.
But for me, it was an amazing experience of feeling like he was finally seeing a more complete picture of who I am. Even living in San Francisco, the assumption people make about me is that I'm straight." "I am a bi woman currently dating a bi man.
Shortly before I married my husband, I finally left Christianity behind, for many reasons. I was finally able to think about who I really am and what I really believe without some old white guy telling me the 'right' answers and condemning me for any deviance. Part of this was learning that I'm not straight.
I realized that I was falling in love with one of my female friends (who is also bisexual).
' And he said, ' Since you're asking, I'm assuming the answer isn't straight.' We had a great conversation about what being bisexual means, perceptions of it in both straight and gay culture, and what it means for me personally.
His only real questions were if his dad knew (yes) and if his brother knew (no).
(At least for me; it was the first time I had identified myself in that way.) A year or so later, when I got pregnant, we went back in to the doctor to confirm and after we had heard our baby's heartbeat for the first time, seen that it was a real being, that our lives were about to change, the nurse comes in to do my examination (my boyfriend had left at this point) and tells me in a sly voice, ' I guess we can cross the bisexual off your chart, can't we?
That was just a phase.'" "I'm a bi/pansexual woman married to a straight man. My parents never said that homosexuality was wrong, but they never really said it was OK either. But my church made it clear to me as a young person that it was only OK to be straight.
Sometimes it means passing depending on the context because it's hard to play the role of educator and/or be on the defense all the time.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating